Anti-
Bullying-Policy Statement
Trowbridge
Amateur Swimming Club are committed to ensure that any bullying which
involves children should be seen in the same light as other child protection
concerns. In this respect, the club follows the guidelines laid down
in the ASA's "Code of Ethics" and follows our own code of
Ethics Policy.
TASC are
keen to encourage an atmosphere of mutual trust and respect for self
and others. We believe that 'prevention' is better than cure' and that
the chances of bullying happening in a club can be greatly reduced if
there is a general atmosphere where members are valued and cared for.
Bullying
of any kind is unacceptable at TASC. We take bullying seriously and
we recognise that tackling bullying is the responsibility of everyone
in the club.
We are
a 'Telling' club. All swimmers and parents should be able to 'tell'
and be assured that incidents will be dealt with promptly and effectively.
Anyone who knows that bullying is happening is expected to tell the
club Welfare Officer or any committee member or pool-side staff, and
be confident that they will be supported and that their concerns will
be listened to and taken seriously. Please remember that if we don't
know about a particular bullying problem, then we cannot deal with it.
Objectives of the Anti-Bullying Policy
TASC is
committed to ensuring that:
- All
Committee Members, coaches, officials, pool-side staff, swimmers and
parents have an understanding of what bullying is, its effects and
how to recognise it.
- All
Committee Members, coaches, officials and pool-side staff should know
what the club policy is on bullying, and follow it when bullying is
reported
- All
Swimmers and parents should know what the club policy is on bullying
and what they should do if bullying arises.
To help
raising awareness to the issues, we submit the following guidance:
What
is bullying?
In general
terms, bullying is the use of aggression or intimidatory behaviour towards
another person (especially to smaller or weaker people), with the intention
of hurting that person. Bullying can cause considerable distress to
children.
Bullying has several forms and can be:
- Emotional
- being unfriendly, excluding (emotionally and physically), sending
hurtful text messages, and tormenting (e.g hiding clothes, goggles/floats,
threatening gestures).
- Physical
- pushing, kicking or using any other form of violence
- Racist
- racial taunts, gestures
- Sexual
- unwanted physical contact or sexually abusive comments
- Homophobic
- focusing on the issue of sexuality
- Verbal
- name-calling, sarcasm, spreading rumours etc.
Response
It is important for the club to respond quickly to bullying because
it can be very distressing to the victim. Everyone in our club has the
right to be treated with respect and no-one, under any circumstances,
deserves to be a victimised or intimidated by others. At the same time,
under the ASA's 'Code of Ethics', the club accepts that swimmers who
are bullying others also need support to in order to learn to change
their behavior.
Signs and Symptoms
A child
may indicate by signs or behavior that he or she is being bullied. Adults
should be aware of these signs and should investigate if a child:
•
says he or she is being bullied
• is unwilling to go to club sessions
• becomes withdrawn, anxious or lacking in confidence
• feels ill before training sessions
• come home with clothes torn or swimming equipment damaged
• has possessions go missing
• asks for money or starts stealing money (to pay the bully)
• has unexplained cuts and bruises
• is frightened to say what's wrong, giving improbable excuses
for any of the above
In extreme
cases:
•
starts stammering
• cries themselves to sleep at night or has nightmares
• becomes aggressive, disruptive or unreasonable
• is bullying other children or siblings
• stops eating
• attempts or threatens suicide or runs away.
It is important
to note that these signs and behaviours may indicate other problems,
but bullying should be considered a possibility and investigated.
Procedures
The following
procedures define what should be done in specified circumstances:
• Members and parents should report incidents of bullying to
any member of the committee or to the club Welfare Officer, who will
deal with it or escalate it as necessary.
• If concern is raised by a club member, the members' parents
should be informed immediately and will be asked to attend a meeting
to discuss the problem
• The bullying behaviour or threats of bullying must be investigated
and the bullying stopped quickly
• The person doing the bullying (and if deemed necessary their
parents or guardians) will be spoken to in an attempt to help the
bully (bullies) change their behaviour.
• The ASA Child Protection Procedures will be implemented if
a serious concern is raised.
• If mediation fails and the bullying is seen to continue, the
club will initiate immediate disciplinary action under the club Constitution.
Updated
June 2009